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RESPONSIBILITY

August 2, 2020

Saturday-evening Carola Castillo and I closed the worldwide free webinar-tour of our school with an English webinar, the 5th in the row after two Spanish webinars, a Brazilian one and a Dutch one. It was an amazing joyful experience. To be able to open up towards so many interested participants and speak about our journey […]

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BEING SPIRITUAL

July 20, 2020

What does it mean? A lot of images of spirituality relate to a longing for enlightenment. We state that the only place to find this ‘light’ is in our own dark.  Survival strategies are all we learned since we were little in an attempt to hide. It’s is 95 % of our behavior, feelings and […]

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LIFE

July 18, 2020

LIFE! A good focus to start this day. It’s so easy to feel discomfort or limitations. Our senses are directed outwards. In a certain way they are trained to look outside for trouble. And yes, on and on they find trouble. We don’t have senses to look, hear, smell, taste and feel inside. So we need […]

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HUMAN SHADOW

July 16, 2020

I offer myself an exciting professional journey. ·       I worked years as a doctor, fascinated by life and dead. ·       I work since years as a psychotherapist, fascinated by the adult and the child in us. ·       And I work as a teacher in reconstructive, fascinated by human masks and shadows. Shadows intrigue us humans. […]

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DO YOU INVEST IN PROBLEMS OR IN SOLUTIONS?

July 12, 2020

DO YOU WAIT FOR OTHERS TO BRING SOLUTIONS ? In our perception rescue comes from outside ourselves. Snow White slept for hundred years until the Prince kisses her and she wakes up… We all have that strategy really deep in our belief system. We switch from one rescuer to another in the hope faith will […]

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FACING FEAR

July 9, 2020

Fear is a mysterious emotion. It has the potential to lead us. Most of us learned to distrust our own fear. We deny it, ignore it, fight it, run away from it, blow it out of proportion, dramatize it, … All strategies in the infantile hope to control it without much success. When I face […]

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ME AND MY JOURNEY

July 5, 2020

We are looking to give ourselves value and respect. And this is sometimes complicated, because the choices we make and what we do, seem not always dignifying: patrons, repetition, hesitation, confusion, conflict, … We might forget that the journey is the most important.  And our journey is often more heroic than we realize. Our willingness […]

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SHADOW AND LIGHT

July 3, 2020

Nothing more fascinating than shadow and light! Maybe it’s the incapacity of us, humans to perceive the bigger picture that creates so much fear is us towards life. The universal ‘man and his mask’ is a mystery of life. The tendency of every human being to show himself differently from his inner truth and the […]

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LOVE ANIMALS

June 27, 2020

There is something really fascinating about animals and their relationship to life. Since early childhood I watch animals, all kinds of them. I love the way they are who they are. I love their joy, although situations are sometimes clearly not ideal for them. They teached me about how sacred life is. Slowly I am […]

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NEW CHALLENGES

Sometimes as we grow older we tend to think life should get easier and easier. And on a certain level it does. Once I tasted the smell of real freedom it gets easier and easier to free myself. On an other level the biggest joy and freedom in life is to devote to what’s bigger […]