When we allow ourselves to have a deeper look inside ourselves we find far more hidden NO’s than expected. We need a partner, work, friends, colleagues, … But at the same time the automatic reflex to protect ourselves and hide is strong. So the messages are confusing – inside messages and what we communicate outside […]
The child in us has so much power. It sometimes convinces us to wait for change in others in order to become happy. It is specialized in mistakes and needs which can’t be fullfilled. What if we change perspective?! What if we tell him to calm down a bit? What if we help him to […]
Relationship & Community I love to think that we – the human race – are only at the beginning of what a deeper understanding of relationship and by extension community could be. It seems obvious that we need to look beyond all we learned since early childhood – family, education, culture, religion, …- to get […]
· If I choose for drama-energy instead of acknowledging pain · If I choose for excuses instead of trying · If I choose for doubt instead of trusting my fear · If I blame others instead of taking responsibility · If I blame myself instead of taking responsibility · If I repeat my story and […]