Our child perception is fragmentary. This means that we learned to focus only on a small part of the complex reality we were confronted to. So we saw our family and all members – ourselves included. – only out of one specific angle. This specific perception – the automatic angle from where we look and […]
Let’s look at our intimate relationships, professional contacts, relationships we have with our children, what we look for in therapists, mentors, … It’s a bit naïve and short-minded to think we only have relationships out of primal necessity – because we felt in love (partner), because we need money (work), because we wanted children, because […]
· If I choose for drama-energy instead of acknowledging pain · If I choose for excuses instead of trying · If I choose for doubt instead of trusting my fear · If I blame others instead of taking responsibility · If I blame myself instead of taking responsibility · If I repeat my story and […]
Saturday-evening Carola Castillo and I closed the worldwide free webinar-tour of our school with an English webinar, the 5th in the row after two Spanish webinars, a Brazilian one and a Dutch one. It was an amazing joyful experience. To be able to open up towards so many interested participants and speak about our journey […]
What does it mean? A lot of images of spirituality relate to a longing for enlightenment. We state that the only place to find this ‘light’ is in our own dark. Survival strategies are all we learned since we were little in an attempt to hide. It’s is 95 % of our behavior, feelings and […]
I offer myself an exciting professional journey. · I worked years as a doctor, fascinated by life and dead. · I work since years as a psychotherapist, fascinated by the adult and the child in us. · And I work as a teacher in reconstructive, fascinated by human masks and shadows. Shadows intrigue us humans. […]